Good morning! Rise and shine!
Before we start our lesson today I have a question. Do you like it when the Bible gives you instructions? Or do you only like to read the verses that make you feel all warm and fuzzy? Humm, answer yourself honestly.( You don’t tell us- just yourself!)
Luke 20:46-47
This is a lesson that is a repeat in the Bible. if God tells you the same thing in several verses:
1-It is very important
2-It is something we are going to resist
If you will indulge me, I want to go back to the last lesson about loving only one master. I just feel I did not say what I was being prompted to say. Sometimes I am more human than you think. I will read a verse and know just what God is telling me with it. I usually just share flat out what I feel. Sometimes though, the fact that I know all of you so well will color my writing. I don’t know why but I feel that way about Friday.
So I am going to throw a few more thoughts out on the table.
When I asked this morning about if you LIKE to read the different parts of the Bible- this was on my mind. It can be very easy for us to read the stories of people long ago and think “wow, that is amazing”. or we love to read about how Jesus was willing to do what-ever it took to save us.
Yet when you hit a passage that pricks you where you live- we can skip that part, or skim right over it.
Sometimes I think the day to day struggles we have fall into this catagory. If we study the Bible we find what our priorities are supposed to be. They do not always match what we want to be doing.
That is where the love/hate of masters falls in.
If your #1 job is to love God, but you are busy keeping busy and making yourself happy- you will resent the thought that you are not reading the Bible or praying enough, or what-ever it is you do to love God.
If you are married, then loving your husband is #2 then. If you are busy showing the world how smart or active in things you are- you will resent your husband. He does not support YOU enough, apprecitate YOU enough, help YOU enough.
Now I like having my husbands help too. There were times in my marriage that he did not do what he should have been doing- and my burden was crushing frankly. If most of you were married to my husband in those day you would have divorced him or killed him!
Why did I stay? Because God told me that marriage was a picture of him and the church. So I loved when my husband did not deserve it- because God loved me when I did not deserve it.
The Bible also told me that I was created to be my husbands helpmeet. It is not the other way around. Modern day or not- that verse still stands.
That is where the verse of us loving one master and hating the other comes to life. If whatever you are doing makes you mad at hubby…perhaps you are doing the wrong thing? Or maybe you are just looking at it wrong? Maybe the “burden” will be your blessing in times to come. Mine was.
I now have a thoughtful husband who treasures me, because he now realizes just how hard those times were for me. It was my love and faithfulness and JOY during those dark years that eventually lead my husband to Jesus.
I do not mean to hurt anyones feeling ever. I love each of you here- too much maybe.
I just want to encourage you to love your husband- faults and all. I want you to go about your busy day happy, even if the burden is great. Let God lift your heart as you complete your many tasks.
If you are feeling worn out and angry, maybe you have lost sight of your first love. Hugs, Barbara